Childbirth Resources that Empower Women

Check out the childbirth section in any bookstore and you're sure to find dozens of books written by "experts." No doubt several copies of the self-proclaimed "pregnancy bible" - What to Expect When You're Expecting - will be prominently displayed, along with numerous books by midwives and childbirth educators. Although much of what you'll see will not be written by doctors, nearly all of them, in my opinion, will be somewhat condescending. The author will presume to tell you how to give birth.

Of course, most of the books written by midwives won't advise you to put your trust in doctors. Instead, they'll advise you to put your trust in midwives. Even Pam England's book Birthing From Within has a chapter called "Don't Give Birth Without a Doula!" What if a woman doesn't want or need a doula? Isn't that a decision that each woman needs to make for herself?

What you won't find on the shelves are childbirth books that encourage women to put their trust in themselves. Sure, some of them will give lip service to the idea that "women know how to give birth!" But if these authors truly believe this, why do they consistently fail to mention the fact that books about unassisted childbirth DO exist? Are they simply unaware of their existence? Are they aware of their existence but feel these books are poorly written? Or are they aware of their existence but fear that if every woman knew she could give birth without assistance, the "childbirth industry" would crumble to pieces? You make the call.

The fact is, unassisted childbirth books do exist - and have existed since the 1950's. Here are the ones that I recommend.

 

Unassisted Childbirth by Laura Shanley (you really didn't expect me to leave this one out, did you?!). Since I don't like to toot my own horn (too much), please click here if you would like to read an excerpt from my book. Click here to read the preface, back cover, and reviews. Named "Most alarming book title of 1994" by The Houston Chronicle, this book is for anyone who enjoys defying the establishment, and following their own dreams. Available through Bornfree Bookshop.

Come Gently Sweet Lucina by Pat Carter. Written in 1957 by a woman who preferred to give birth alone, this book is both interesting and amusing. Unfortunately, the book has been out of print for many years, but I have taken the liberty of making a Xerox copy of my Xerox copy so that Pat's words of wisdom will not be lost. Pat was a true pioneer, and although I don't agree with everything she wrote (she smoked during her pregnancies to avoid gaining weight), the book is definitely worth reading. Chapters include such gems as "The Untoward Effects of the Current Practice of Making Fathers Appear as Stupid Dolts to Their Wives in Childbirth While the Doctor Appears as the Rescuing Hero," and "The Medical Heel (What he is. Why he does not always know he is a heel. The damage he does to women in childbirth. How to avoid such damage.)" Click here to read newspaper articles written about Pat in the 1950's. Available through Bornfree Bookshop.

Unassisted Homebirth: An Act of Love by Lynn Griesemer. This book is full of interesting insights, tips, observations, suggestions, and stories about this most intimate "act of love." The forgotten man - Dad - is finally brought into the picture, as Lynn's husband Bob and other fathers share their wonderful birth stories (including one of an unassisted birth of breech twins!). This book is currently out of print but will soon be available as an ebook through Lynn's web site - UnassistedHomebirth.com.

Primal Mothering in a Modern World by Hygeia Halfmoon. Every woman who has felt the joy of following her most primal mothering instincts, and the pain of living in a world that often discourages her from doing so, will see herself in this book. Hygeia's story is both touching and inspiring, from her heartbreaking and unnecessary C-section, to her glorious unassisted homebirth. Available through Bornfree Bookshop.

Prenatal Yoga and Natural Childbirth by Jeannine Parvati Baker. Even if you're not into yoga, you will enjoy this book. Jeannine's beautiful spirit shines through every page. This 25th Silver Anniversary Edition is filled with lovely photographs of Jeannine, Rico, and their children. The book ends with Jeannine's wonderful stories of her unassisted homebirths, as well as the freebirth story of her first grandchild. Available through Jeannine's web site.

Childbirth without Fear by Grantly Dick-Read. This was the book that opened my eyes to the truth about birth. Yes, it was written by a man nearly fifty years ago - and a doctor no less - but his words still ring true. Available through Bornfree Bookshop. (Note: This book doesn't specifically mention unassisted childbirth, but its message is clear - women are powerful and capable of creating beautiful births.)

The Power of Pleasurable Childbirth by Laurie Annis Morgan. Laurie is not only a warm and caring person, she's also a great writer! In addition to sharing her own unassisted birth stories, she also delves into such issues as "Fear and its relation to pain," "The dangers of assisted birth," "What do you have against midwives anyway?" and "Sex and birth, pain and complications." Available through Bornfree Bookshop.

The New Nativity II. Valarie Nordstrom edits this quarterly newsletter for couples who choose to give birth without medical assistance. It's always interesting and entertaining. For a one year subscription (4 issues) send $12.50 to:

Valarie Nordstrom
4820 69th Ave. No.
Brooklyn Ctr. MN 55429-1673

The Mother magazine. Veronika Robinson has done a wonderful job with this new magazine based in the UK. Topics covered include fertility awareness, conscious conception, peaceful pregnancy, sacred birth, extended breastfeeding, natural immunity and attachment parenting.

Compleat Mother magazine. This is one of the best "alternative" birthing magazines around (and one of the few that is willing to publish my articles). Available through Bornfree Bookshop..

Websites that promote unassisted childbirth. Where to begin! There are just so many! One of these days I will write an article about the many wonderful web sites devoted to this topic. Until then, check out my links page, or visit the sites in the Freebirth Webring. There is also a site in Australia for Australian Unassisted Pregnancy & Childbirth - Purebirth Australia.